SDFoundGirl. I've been reading some of your posts and I find myself agreeing with you, or relating to your story. Unfortnately for me, my story is just beginning, in relation to DB. Its funny, when my h and I were first together I was very easy going and couldn't make decisions. Then we married and he got a job where his on call 24/7 and barely around. With 3 little kids at home, I quickly became the decision maker, and he seemed to prefer that, and appeared happy to let me "run the show". I wasn't happy with this situation but I lived it. I tried to talk about feeling alone in the marriage, but it didn't change anything (obviously before I knew about DB, and making changes with myself...easier to blame him for all of it!) Then this Nov. he drops the I'm not happy, something is missing, ILYBINILWY, you've changed etc. This was the first time in almost 20 years together took a stand on something. I wish he has spoke up sooner.
Me-36 H-37 D11 S8 S6 M9 T19 ILYNILWY 11/10 discover EA 02/11 discover EA is really PA/H moved out 03/11 H wants to go to counselling,piecing 12/11 Find out still OW(plural), I'm officially done/detached 04/12
