DB'ing but it's a daily struggle - need support.

[habitacker]

Angel, this makes sense. From day 1 before I new about DB, my wife hated it when I said, I love you. She told me it was because she could not say it back.

Maybe one of the reasons they don't like pursuing is guilt. They can't return the love.

I am not detaching very good, but I think you need to know the difference between detaching and going dark. I kind of know this in my mind, but am not sure how to write it. Maybe someone like MrBond can respond to this and give us a definition of the difference.