Be careful as far as MC goes. My W and I have gone down that route and almost got divorced 2x before. 3rd times a charm, huh? Make sure you choose the MC VERY carefully. The 2 gems we went to before have ruined any opportunity for my W to even consider it this time around. The first one told her to run from the marriage. The 2nd one basically told us that W is the way she is, I am the way I am and we just have to learn to live with it. No wonder so many people get D with this type of 'professional' help out there.
Was just at Walgreen's, place is littered with Valentine's Day stuff already. Geez! Still licking the wounds of Christmas.
M42 W38 D5D7 M8 Living as 'roomates' since 9-12-10 Moved out 1-7-11 FIL threatened to kill me 1-20-11