DB'ing but it's a daily struggle - need support.

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SIC, Do not say anything to W about medical issues. She will see something like "you just want me fixed so you can have sex". If you go back through my posts you will see I have dealt with this also. My wife has hypothyroidism. Problem is, and it is very hard, anything you do to try and get her help is going to look like you see her as the problem, and she needs fixed. Even if this is true, your only going to make things worse. I'm sorry, it makes us feel so helpless. I am just starting to accept that she has to do this by herself. We can't support them the way we want to.

Angel61, I believe the pursuing for me has stopped, but I need to keep a close eye on myself. It is easy to do things that are persuing without even noticing. I bet she notices though.

I think a lot of what I post on here sounds like I am persuing or desperate. It sounds much worse than what is actually happening at home. This is the place where I can really let everything out, which to the person reading probably relates that to the way I am acting at home. I am sure there is a fine line there though.