Pickle, Maybe you should open a thread in MLC. The vets there give a lot of good input. But Newcomers get a lot of traffic, so maybe keep this as long as you can as well, as you are still fairly new but I can see you are already getting more comfortable and knowledgeable about DBing.
As Gritter says, its all about you. About us, not our spouses. I agree with Habitacker, our spouses do have some "sickness". I am in the medical field, I now view my H as a "patient" and am doing a lot of research about the MLC condition. The more informed you are, the more you understand why they do things.
I would recommend that all of you read about MLC if you are not sure why your spouse is behaving so.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
