Now that I think about it. Telling me "I want a divorce" was not even direct communication. The day of the bomb she never actually said those words.
Then how did you know? You've been together 12 years. She must have been communicating in-directly somehow. No WAS goes from quietly content to suddenly bomb drop. You have to figure how, where, what and when, but you can do it.
Take SAC's sitch for instance. The words coming out of his W's mouth say "I will schedule appt for councilling", but her actions or in this case in-action screams loudly, "I don't want to go to effing councillingI"
But that's just my observation.
I agree with you Pickle, but what I don't understand is not just tell me she's not ready to go?!?!?! Would that be so hard instead of just telling me "I will" everytime I ask?!?!?
Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011