Yes, it's that little negative voice. I think the timing sounds good. You have Retrouvaille at the end of February. If you both go there with open minds and willing hearts, I predict that by March 15, you will be ready to live together again. Why do I say that? Because I don't buy the phrase "if things didn't work it". Don't get me wrong, when I was in your position, I thought that way too. It was only later, when we were completely reconciled that I realized there was never a chance that it wouldn't work out once both of us decided that we wanted to reconcile.
Keep in mind love is a decision. It is not something that happens to you like getting a disease. You can decide to love and you can decide not to love. This will become clear to you when you go through the Retrouvaille program. But if you both decide to love each other, and you act in loving ways toward each other, then how could things not work out?
So you see, the power is in your hands and hers. No one else's. Loving is doing. It is actions.
