I just browsed through your posts, but it is very clear what the problem is here. Wussie behavior period.
Women tie feelings of love very close to their feelings of respect. How do you gain respect.....Don't be a wussie. Now you can't seriously expect her to have respect for you when you don't even have it for yourself right?
So you plan just giving her whatever she decides is fair? You don't want to rock the boat? Come on man.....If you really want to save your marriage, this is the 180 you need. Women are attracted to a strong, confident man who is in control of their emotions and can make decisions. I'd say your best bet now is to read a book either "no more mr. nice guy" or hold onto your N.U.T.S.
To be completely honest, being passive, indecisive, living in fear, and letting her be in total control will get you absolutely no where except divorced. I know this is a little harsh, but if getting your wife back is really what you want, it is time to do something different. Build the attraction!!
