Well, heard from H through text last night. First he comes off with that nobody is telling him what to do for one thing (have NO clue to what he is talking about), I just know things would never work. I know I have problems and you don't need to remind me of them (another.....I have NO clue to where this came from).
Then he goes on to say he doesn't know what he wants. We were talking about the money it is costing the both of us for the lawyers so I told H (since he said he is confused and doesn't know what he wants) that we can put it on hold, all he has to do is to contact his lawyer and have her write to mine and say we want to put a hold on the D.
I don't know where this came from.....next H is texting me and saying that I never made an attempt to contact his family because I'm scared of what they would say.
I thought to myself, yes I would be scared all you have done was lied about me to them so you didn't look like the bad guy for walking out on me and the kids.
I told him that D14 called his step-mother on Mother's Day and she never returned the call so there is really nothing I can do. So he goes on to say what about my mother and them? You never made any attempt to contact them.
I told him that he had told me that they don't like me on Christmas and would probably only slam the phone down or shut the door in my face. H responds with, well at least you tried. WTH???????
Within hours he went to saying it wouldn't work to saying he doesn't know what he wants back to saying it wouldn't work again. And in between he's telling me to contact his family. I really thought he was seeing some light saying he knows he has problems but I didn't say a word to him, and he's saying I don't need to remind him. WTH????
Help me understand....anyone.
I asked him what the heck would I say, I didn't do anything to them or to him and he says just tell the truth. Then he says just to say what I want. And that they are home all day if I wanted to talk to them. I said I work all day. So I thought to myself, maybe I should go talk to them and fill them in on H and what is really going on and try to smooth things over with them for the kids sake.
So not 15 min. later I get a text from H saying just forget about it. I make my own decisions and I think its for the best that we move on.
