Eric, Thanks for posting that last paragraph. That seems like the best route to take.

You said you did not know if SIC had a OM involved. When it comes to persuing, what difference does it make? Would you of offered different advice if there was not a OM?

H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair