WCW,

Hi there. I am staying for now with this family, about 20 miles away from my W and boys. Called W today about our visitation plan. I asked her how we are going to work this out and asked for her input.

Since my W and I are not officially divorced or separated, what would be a fair visitation schedule that I could have with the boys? I understand there may be several ways to do this: every other weekend, every week, etc. I don't know what the right answer would be. What would you suggest?

Joel


Me:44
WAW:43
Children S13,S11,S7
Married 17 yrs
W left JUN 08
W filed JAN 09
D proceedings dismissed AUG 09
W refiles 1 MAR 11