Pickle might be right. I don't know.

I was actually having the same thoughts as you about valentine's day. God willing we are still together.

I was thinking about making reservations at a favorite restaurant of ours. I will tell her what I am doing, and if she would care to join me she is welcome. If she turns me down, I can have a romantic dinner with one of my buddies. ooolala. If she goes, I will have to stand him up. I would hate to break his heart. Problem is I am not sure I could find a buddy that would have a valentine dinner with me, and not sure I would want to.LOL.

I thought about doing nothing, but what are the consequences of that?

H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair