i took s to counselor that school recommended but he said he did not want to go in. this is the first time he went. i went in and told the counselor and he said i can not force my son to talk to him or any other counselor. he came out to car to meet my son and told him if he ever wants to come and talk, he is welcome to. son told me that the situation does not bother him and stop worrying about him.
