My last post and thread was focused on my dilema about confronting my WW about her A with the email evidence. The OM was my best friend and is my BIL. This has created extra challenges in confronting the A. My Sister the OMW and I coordinated confronting both of them at the same time on Dec 30. This is primarily according to them a friendship EA/ brief PA bit back in June-ish 2010. My W was a teen mom. We have a total 5 kids. I thought she was happy. They started complaing about the M's to each other Barriers broke down. Since confronting we see no evidence of contact. My W seems to be in withdrawal and very unhappy. She says she is done with this M. She filed for Divorce on Dec. 16. I have yet to be served. She says she is desperate to leave but is taking the time to buy a house. She has been working extra to do so. I feel like she is a combination of the WAW, MLC and affair wife. I am still willing to try to save this she says she is done. Is this even recoverable if she is so set on leaving and filed and keeps saying she is done? She signed for a mortgage application today. I have read and rereading DR,DB, now Mars andd Venus. Really starting to think I should just give it up.
H 37 WW 37 M 15 5 Children Bomb 9-27-10 W EA/Pa she filed 12-18-10