DB'ing but it's a daily struggle - need support.

[ScaredinCanada]

So tonight when I got home from my counselling appointment I acted normal and cordial with my W. I told her C went well, and asked if she'd booked yet "Nooooo, not yet." Ya I know hunny it's only been a f**king month, I'm sure you'll get around to it when it makes it onto your "important list".

I was kind of annoyed with my C. Even though I hadn't seen her in almost a month she made a point to say that "I don't seem to have the notes from our previous session handy" which resulted in me having to go over things again that we went over the first time.

Anyways, I was asking the W if she realized that she hadn't marked my parents anniversary on our calendar (because she puts EVERYTHING on the caledar) and she said "Why would I care about there anniversary - I don't even care about my own!"

All I could do was walk-away. She confronted me a few minutes later and just gave me a look and said "What's from with you?" I just said I can't believe you'd say you could care less about our anniversary. She told me "it was un-called for and she shouldn't have said it but it's what she feels" she continue to say "we've never done anything for our anniversary anyways".

Ya, ya sure we've never done anything for our anniversary?!?!?

So now my million dollar question is:

HOW DO I HANDLE MY ANNIVERSAY NOW?? It's in just over a week. Should I plan a baby-sitter, make reservations somewhere?

I was originally going to plan a weekend away at nice chalet resort or something, but she shot that down before Christmas.

I can't imagine I supposed to just ignore it and do nothing? Should I make plans for myself and just act like it's another day?????