Ha, MrBond. I had to laugh about the crazy people comment. I will have to try that.
Thanks for the advice. Sorry about the earlier post. I do not think I phrased my remarks about my wife faking things properly.
I should of just stated a simple question asking whether or not it was a bad thing or maybe baby steps. I made it sound like it was frustrating me. It is some, but for the reasons of not understanding why. Sometimes when all we can do is type, things get taken in the wrong perspective.
I don't know if the faking it could be baby steps as you say, or it feels to me as being nice because of what she is going to do. Such as D. I see the pessimistic part in that. More fear I think.
I will try to stop mind reading a crazy person.
Thanks again.
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