Last entanglement in Paris

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Sleeper, In my thread you had said you were afraid that X would come around as you get ready to move on.

I guess I see that as a bit of a fantasy at this point. The fact is, after this much time has gone by, we don't know our spouses very well any more. We haven't had intimate conversations in years. I realized that X is essentially a stranger, and so is his family. Four years is a LONG time. Your X remarried. Sure, she might still come around, but you might consider that you would need to start with her as you would any other new date, not as someone where you could pick up where you left off.

In fact, you would need to regard her as MORE risky than a new date for a LTR, because she already proved to you that she was willing to bail.

There is a part of me that would like to resuscitate things, because they were good when they were good. But I guess I see that as a fantasy at this point.

Not saying you should or shouldn't wait...but falling in love again is possible.