An affair is one of the hardest things to get over, past and forgive in a person.
The images you have in your head are bad. The monsters in the closet.
IF your wife is having an affair, that is bad enough. Your imagination is going to make it worse. All the things she did with you all the things she didn't do with you, even the ammount.
It's not good for you to spend your time imagining them together. It will fester in your head.
Sex is something shared not to be owned. So the 'mine' statement...its a bit much. Should she be having sex with someone else? No, if she is. It's a very poor choice on her part.
Can you get those pictures out of your head? Yes you can in time, when she proves herself committed to being married to you, they'll fade.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
