Thanks Bond, I was thinking the same. I have started to lead a bit. I told her I have a surprise for her this Saturday and to plan on a night out. She appears happy about it... Thanks for your input.


And Harrier, you are correct. My W is also not your traditional WAW. She never left the house and we never discussed D. I just use the term cause she had an EA and was talking about leaving, looking at town houses, telling me we are "not a couple", etc.

She did walk away from me in her heart and mind for a short time (still working her way back) which is why I use the term.


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012