Hi Yippy,
I'm sorry you are going through this and I understand exactly how you feel. My husband is also having an A and it is a crushing feeling to think of them being intimate. I wish I had advice for you but I don't as I am in the same boat.

What is the status of your R with her?
Hopefully an experienced vet can help us both with this.

Good luck to you...

Me:32 H:32
M:9 T:15
D:4 S:2
OW/PA: JANUARY 10
ILYBINILWY AUGUST 10
Goes and Comes July/September
Moves out September
Sep. since Sept.