Oh and yes, thanks for the reality check about the way he might be twisting this. I can see exactly what you're saying. This whole thing won't change my relationship (well, lack of one) with him. It won't change my rel. with my sister, other than that I hope that they allow me the space to be down and just pull myself out unless I ask for help.


M45
Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11
Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy
"Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying