IMO if your W was still engaged with the OM, she would have treated you with contempt. That seems to be how most WAWs react anyhow. It looks like things are going positively. You have to find a way to keep the momentum going. It sounds like it's time for you to start leading rather than letting her lead you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.