Am I piecing? Just can't tell 2...

[Sad_but_happy]

Question...

So things are going VERY well.... No LM yet but... Great communication, lots of texting, wine every night with fire, blah blah blah...

Last night instead of spooning she actually turned to me and we held each other until falling asleep... More progress...

She even surprised me with an overnight stay at a 4 star hotel next month (just the two of us, no kids)...

Again, No R talk of any kind...


So here is my mind going wild and me needing some opinions... As I see it there are two reasons for our progress getting better and better over the past 60 days:

1. Wife really wants to make this M work. Realizes that her place is with family and making every effort to re-connect and live happily ever after with our new changes.

OR, and here is my mind going wild...

2. Wife is continuing EA and is happy because of OM or she is feeling guilty and being nicer and nicer to me because of it (I have no proof of A, she is always where she says shes going to be, always home on time, cell records indicate no communication at all, nothing on computer, always at work, you get the point).


But it makes me wonder how often the WAS LOOKS to be committing to M just to carry on A. Does anyone have any insight?

I'm not panicking or upset... Just posing the question.