I'm just confused by the whole process really at times. It's really hard when your W is a Psychologist. She seems to be attune to the DB process so it's like she's throwing curve-balls. I mean before I read the book, she told me exactly what she needed. It was funny because some of it was from the list. She said I need space from you, She said don't even think of sending me flowers, gifts or cards. Don't talk about this with family/friends. She liked it when I was happy.
Of course, she never gave me any of the speeches (ILYBNILWY, or we shouldn't have gotten married, etc. In fact she said a few times that she still loves me romantically and never tried to re-write the history of our marriage. In fact she often comments about how good it was.
So I guess I'm confused overall and my W is tricky.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
