Honestly, I never referred to my W (on here or even to myself) as a WAW. My wife never followed that pattern really and our situation isn't the classic WAW situation.
I think you are onto something though as I don't know where my situation fits exactly. Yes there are some traits of the WAW, but there are traits of working things out. At times my W is like your and just spends minimal time other times she is more loving.
A part of me feels like I really don't belong here because I see other people in worse situations than me, plus I feel like a jerk for disagreeing with the DB process, but am happy to use the forums.
You thoughts are very, very helpful.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
