The DB "list" isn't something that you never do. Just initially. If you see that your WAS is open to hearing ILY, then do it. If your W seems open to gifts, then you do it.
When a WAS FIRST walks out, they don't want the LBS to do anything for them. But when things get better, you start knocking things off that list. If they have a negative reaction to it, then you lay off again until you think it's okay to do it again.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
