my question about whether her being upbeat being good or bad relates to the status her and the OM. If she has or is planning end the EA, I wouldn't think that she would be that upbeat about it. On the other hand, if it is continuing and she thinks it can go on then maybe that is why she is upbeat.
Maybe I am over thinking things too much and should just accept it for what it is. Trying to interpret all of her actions etc is very trying and not very productive.
