Harrier, maybe the DB process you are using might not be right for your wife. Isn't that list for WAW's, Like not saying I love you. Maybe we need to look real hard to see if our wifes are WAW, or are coming out of the fog.

There needs to be a time when they are ready for progress for things to get better. Doesn't there? If my wife would want to hear, I love you, I would be telling her.

Not all things in DB is for a WAW. In fact, very little of it is because there isn't much you can do except focus on your self. We want there to be a time to focus on them. Maybe your time has come.

This isn't advice, it is just a thought. Maybe someone will comment on it.


H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair