GAL with waw. Stuck bad.

[habitacker]

InAPickle, if you think we are married to the same woman. What do you think the definition of a WAW is? To me it is a wife who is done and will not try. This is my wife.
If my definition is correct, I don't see a lot of WAW's on this site. I see couples interacting about the R with eachother. They have R talk, they are making deals with eachother about how they are going to try and do things,they go to marriage counseling, etc. etc.

I am very happy for these couples who can have this communication, as long as it isn't damaging. But this is not a WAW to me.

I see people come to this site saying that they are a WAS and they need help. This is great that they can come here, but how can you be a WAS and be searching for help. Doesn't a true WAS not want help. They don't want to try.(my wife)

I don't really care if these other sitch's are WAS or not. It is good they are trying to get help and I am glad they found this site as am I.

Does anyone find it strange that my wife's life is about to change dramaticly. Divorce or not. And in 4 months not one word about our sitch, not once? Maybe this is good. That is why I am asking.

mj144, I hope this move works for you. Good Luck. I hope you are right about the way I am doing things, because things sure don't feel right. I am sure you can relate.

ScaredinCanada, My changes have been 4 months and nothing yet. Just want you to expect that. 2 YEARS? Do not want to even think about it, but I'll do it, not if I have to, because I HAVE TO!

I don't have expectations about my changes, they are real. I want her to challenge my changes. BRING IT ON.

I just want her to do something, anything. Well, except divorce me of course. Something positive.

Now, I can't get myself to press the submit button because I am afraid of the response I am going to get from Sandi2 on my thought about the WAW.