SIC: "The thing that really frustrates me now is how she routinely says negative things about the R. Last night she mentioned that we've never parented well together, that we don't agree on how to handle the kids - we do a much better job of parenting on our own "which will be a good thing when we seperate.""

Be warned: Selective memory (only remembering the bad times) is justifying the choice and common to most sitch's. Don't defend yourself, but don't agree if you don't agree.

Validate if you can: "I'm sorry you feel that way and I know you believe what you believe, but I cannot possibly imagine seperate parents can raise kids better than together parents in loving home."

Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."