10:00am, I got a text from him "I didn't want to wake you..though the dog probably did wake you.. love you too"
Now, I do have a glimmer of hope. Someone smack me back to reality, please? I can't afford to get my hopes up, slack on DB, start to assume things are normal, etc. Things are still really fragile.
He's still guarding his computer. Deleted his FB acct (unknown if he has a new one). I have no idea if he's thinking of moving out soon... he said something about not paying the mortgage this month. I haven't been able to hack his computer (I know, I know) so I don't know if he's active on the dating site or not. He has not given me any words that he wants to try to save the marriage. And I am too scared to bring up R talk. So I guess just keep DB'ing and see what happens and if no R talk in the next week or 2, bring it up? I'm worried he'll not pay the mortgage and we'll lose the house. He needs my income to pay all the bills. I don't know what to do about that.
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11