Living Like Roomates 2

[Sad_but_happy]

Hi 25,
My approach to EA's and PA's are not black and white other than to set the clear boundary that it will not be tolerated while being married. If having the expectation that my spouse is to be faithful in a monogamous relationship is too much to ask, then I really don't understand the meaning of marriage.

Once I found out my W was having an EA the only way for us to continue our married life with some form of normalcy was for her to end it. And the choice to end it was HERS.

I think we sometimes forget that there IS right and wrong.

If I am mean to my W then the expectation is to apologize and change that behavior.

If my W is having EA then the expectation is for her to apologize and change that behavior.

And if we don't then we don't have much of a marriage and have little respect for one another, JMO.


I understand that my opinion on this subject is not popular and I am OK with that.