Welcome to DB.... have you gotten the books yet? Get them ASAP.

WAS are consistently inconsistent in the beginning (where you are). What she says today can change tomorrow, and often does.

Why are you couchsurfing? Has she kicked you out?

What 180's are you doing? How are you reacting to her?

How old is she?

What do YOU want? Do you want to save it? It's only been 2 weeks. 2 weeks... are you ready to give up 5 years and a marriage so quickly?

Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy
H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16

Dating 4/07
M 10/08
Bomb #1 12/10
Bomb #2 1/11
Bomb #3 12/11