we talked effectivly last night and honesty really did come out, no anger in our talk, just honesty and I really felt better afterwards. Now I just need to walk the walk and stop talking the talk.


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out