Thank you for your support. It means a lot to me that there are people out there taking the time away from their own issues to lend support to mine.
Wife came home from work and was pretty upbeat. Hard to tell whether that is a good or bad sign.
Really Punchy? It's hard to tell? If she were in a bad mood, trust me, that's NOT good news. So don't see everything as a harbinger of doom or it might come into being. I'm a firm believer that if we act enough on our fears, that which we fear actually comes into being. Of course it's a good sign she's upbeat, or at worst, neutral. Come on! You know this! She was very appreciative of the dinner I made.
And, Um, that's a GOOD sign, Punch. Seriously.
I had to run out after dinner to attend a sporting event with our kids so we did not get a chance to discuss anything other than our work days. With the kids around, it is difficult to have any serious one on one discussions.
Will be heading home later this evening and she will likely be in bed when we get home. The waiting continues. Will see what tomorrow brings if anything. Will stick with the plan in the interim.
Leave it alone. If she wants to make a major purchase for a home you planned on having LATER, why push that? What are you risking by getting this thing you ordered long ago? Owning it? Okay so then what? She decides to leave you and then you have to keep it for your family/kids and self, OR you sell it possibly at a moderate loss. Or you can pressure her about what it all means and instead of letting her see the value of the future plans she's now making with you, you can force her to 2nd guess them. I KNOW you don't want to be a doormat. I get it. I just don't see the big downside on this, nor do I see it as a bad sign that she wanted to get it. I saw it as very hopeful. JMHO. More later as I'm pressed for time. Hugs!
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