Am I piecing? Just can't tell 2...

[Denver_2010]

I know you are right Denver... I do need to be patient and didnt bring it up last night.

I have been following your thread. I think about you and others all the time. Keep the faith!

This is such an odd position to be in. Our WAS has just as much to lose as we do. Even more because many regret their decisions...

I really feel that we need to get to a point of caring as little as them before they start to question their decisions.

I agree with you. I just feel that if I truly let myself get to the point of caring as little as WAW, there won't be anything left of M. Sure, at some point, she very well may regret her decisions and want to come back to M. But if I've allowed myself to forget my M vows and the love that I have for W, there won't be anything left to come back to. If I don't fight for M, no one will right now. I also realize that there was a time when W was the only one fighting for ours. I guess I feel that it is my turn.

Thanks for following my thread. I definitely welcome any thoughts or advice that you might have. This DBing stuff is easy in theory, but sometimes very hard to apply in the heat of the moment.