That sounds really nice, Kemper. I guess you know my favorite part....sleeping in over the weekend. Ha! I tricked you!
Now remember, take it slow. There are potholes and setbacks along the way. The important thing is not to let that little voice in your head talk you out of it. (You know the one that tells you things won't work out, she can't be trusted, what if...) Yes, you know the voice. You both have them, and they are the enemy of success. At the stage you are now at, my H and I started reading and discussing "After the Affair" by Janis Spring. It is a helpful book.
The important thing is to not try to move too quickly. There has been a lot of damage, and it won't just go away over night. But you two are being very smart about it, and are willing to accept help from others. That really does make a difference.