Your H has you on a real rollercoaster ride. He obviously is confused.
Is he confused or am I on this rollercoaster on my own?
Originally Posted By: goodattitudegirl
From your post it sounds like something has clicked with H in that he is working harder on his R with D. Do you have any ideas what prompted that?
No idea but I think this is just more of the same old, same old. Gets closer and closer and blows up which allows him to back off. Then he comes back but he is back at ground level and has to build again. It seems he goes a little bit further each time.
This time the blow up was from his guilt. He said he was working to cover up that he was really going to a concert with ow. (That would have cost a lot and he is giving me limited child support.) When he was found out he tried to move the focus from him to D and to me. Then he accused me of being overly demanding and said he's had enough of me and refused to communicate. This gave him space. Now he's ok again because the focus is off his poor behaviour and I guess he sees the ground is level and he can start to build all over again. However, this time I'm not as receptive.
