Wow! I found this post very insightful! Hello. I am new to this site and I have been dealing with co-dependant issues in my life (as well as my H's MLC). Detaching seems to go hand in hand with letting go of co-dependancy. Didn't connect the two before. What really struck me was the statement "Resentment comes from people not doing what you want them to do--and resentment kills love." Kinda gave me chills because my H told me 2 months ago that he doesn't want to become "resentful" towards me. I am viewing his statement in a different light here. Hopefully when I can figure out how this forum works I will post my story. So much good stuff here. Hope I can find this thread again..... Ange
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