I don't know how you do it!!!! Your H has you on a real rollercoaster ride. He obviously is confused. You are one strong lady!
From your post it sounds like something has clicked with H in that he is working harder on his R with D. Do you have any ideas what prompted that?
Glad that H is helping to share the work with your D's swim schedule.
Originally Posted By: dolphin_05
I intend to move along with the focus on me in 2011. This is my year to finally make me the priority and especially my health.
Cas, it IS a relief to feel less emotionally attached to our Hs/XHs, isn't it? I can see this in your posts and I am feeling it in myself too. It removes the fear. We mourn the loss of what could have been (a M R with integrity and commitment) but the actions of our Hs/XHs make it impossible to deny that they are definitely having mental health problems. Sometimes I feel very dissociated from this experience ---- it amazes me that my XH can't see what I see and others close to him see so clearly.
