Thanks all. Had an IC appt today. Still same issue / how can I let this crazy man's actions dictate my identity. I don't have the answer. I know somewhere the answer includes co-dependency. I know it includes insecurity. Bottom-line I am a better person than this situation reveals.
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time