Man, I'm sorry that you are going through this. I wish that I had advice for you, but I'm too new here and my sitch has progressed that far... yet... hopefully never. Hang in there though. It sounds like you are doing great!
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce