Angel - When I said that D is the easy way out, I didn't really mean that it is easy. I am a lawyer, but not a divorce attorney. Anyway, what I meant is that leaving the problems in a M to look for something new is the easy way out. The hard way, the right way, is to choose to stay and fight for you M, to work at figuring those problems out.

Kind of like back in H.S. when one of your friends stole the answer key to a math test that you feel you will flunk. The easy way out of the situation is to use the answer key to cheat and pass the test. The hard way, is to actually put your nose to the grind and work to learn the material. I feel that my W is choosing the easy way out of our problematic M. My choice is to stay and fight for my M, put my nose to the grind and learn WTF I messed up so that I know "the material" in the future...

Good luck to us all... yes, definitely.

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce