thanks very much for this encouraging reply. Do you ever speak to your xh?
Not much at all. He is just now calling his children once in awhile. He has only seen them every few years. He has always written them brief cards, sent them a little money here and there, sometimes Harry Potter books way back when. He is very bitter. He remarried for about two years and they divorced. My daughters never met her.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001