Thanks for the advice. This has to be the hardest thing that I have ever done in my life, waiting for my wife to end or move on with her A.
I will go with your recommendation and not try to get her to engage in any discussions about the R or the future as frustrating as this may be. At the end of the day, I want to be able to say to myself that I did everything possible to save my marriage for the benefit of my kids. At this time, I need to put their needs ahead of mine, something that I am not convinced that my wife is doing.
A few months ago she told me that she is tired of being here for everyone else except her. In her mind, I believe that she feels that the A is justified because she is now finally puttting her needs first for a change.
