Thank you so much for your concern for me and for your wishes for my well being.
These wishes have always been returned by you tenfold. You are very generous in your support of others.
Originally Posted By: Sanderika
I will admit I am not in a very good place.
Sorry to her that and I hope this will change very soon. My thoughts and prayers have been with you.
Originally Posted By: Sanderika
I am trying to come up with a logical and well thought out solution to the end of our marriage and what's in the best interest for all concerned, primarily my son's concerns. I have many options and am finding that I am flip-flopping at a rapid rate the closer I get.
I can understand your dilemma and the confusion especially given your recent interactions with H. In your list of notables were lots of really positive interactions with you and your son. They were quite significant changes and it seems that H is testing the waters more fully. However, as he has already acknowledged he is still totally confused and as you know ow is still present.It seems essential to me then that in your preparations you keep you and S as your focus and priority. You can do this without destroying H, keeping with your plan to remain generous in spirit towards him.
Originally Posted By: Sanderika
There has been NO relationship or divorce talk whatsoever.
However, we know that with an MLCer this can change overnight.
Originally Posted By: Sanderika
I am and will continue to be kind to H. I've come this far being this way and can see no reason to stir up any negative feelings at this point in time. Doing so will only serve me badly.
Agreed. I have stated before that I will always aim to take the high road but still looking after me and D as I go.
H's confusion and changing behaviours obviously impacts on you as well as the fountain of emotion that you have developed over so many years.I feel your pain and confusion and can only wish you my continued prayers and support from afar as you prepare. please keep in touch.
