Well, duh, to your H. How can she trust him, for that matter? Did you read about Shania Twain ... marrying the man, whose wife betrayed him with Shania's H (apparently he was very supportive of her during that time, as I am sure she was for him). And this OW was a friend of Shania. I don't know how people can call themselves that, then turn around and f$#% their friend's H. That's one thing I don't share with my friends.
Excuse the language, but I cannot call it ML when they are betraying the people who trusted them the most.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim