Need advice and support to keep hope

[Denver_2010]

Zeng and Greb - I'm not sure what either of you is doing is considered going dark? Sandi, what do you think? J3B?

I THINK that there is a difference bw "going dark" and simply stopping the initiating of contact, which is what I am doing. I don't initiate contact with W, but will have short, to the point conversations, with W when she initiates. That is what my DB Coach suggested. But I don't think that is going dark.

I'm really curious about this question bc it applies immediately to the manner in which I am dealing with my situation. Any thoughts?