H showed up at the kids' preschool yesterday morning - not his day to see them and he hasn't done this since the first day they started school. Kids were elated - I was not. Although I was cordial, saying good morning and wishing him a good day when we parted, I was obviously not pleased to see him. H is not handling the visitation thing very well out of the gate. It will be confusing to the kids - when he is not there tomorrow or next Tuesday, what does that leave them with? Our confusion shouldn't become theirs.
I am meeting with the child psychologist today to further discuss what is best for kids in regards to visitation.
I had no intention of contacting or speaking with H yesterday but then he texted me to tell me his grandmother is in the hospital. I am very close to her and so contact most of the day between H and I was unavoidable. He is coming to see the kids this afternoon/evening but I will be out of the house during that time. I will only have to see him when he comes and leaves.
M9+ T 11+ Me42 H44 2 kids under 5 IlYBNILWY -3/10 A discovered late 8/10 H moved out early 9/10 - back two weeks later "Taking a Break" - H moves out 1/2/10
