Update - I am still at home, I am homing every night after work. I make dinner and clean-up and then read a little talk a little and go to bed.
He is not answering my calls and barley talks to me because he says I am not trying. By not trying he means that I am not stopping what I am doing when he gets home to hug and kiss him etc. I greet him with a nice hello, how was your day. I am always kind. I cannot bring myself to greet him with the hug and kiss and i am not sure why. I tell myself on the way home that is what I am going to do and then I just can't. Because of this he is punishing me by not answering my calls this morning. He pouts and stays in bed.